Last night something wonderful happened. Something very rare and very special. My husband and I went for a date!! Maybe not that special you might think, but for a couple that hardly ever get to do these kind of things, with no family and friends available as babysitters, with a husband that works crazy hours that normally would cover at least two peoples full time work and therefore makes him a rare sight here at home - a date night is pretty special!
Even more special was that HE had arranged everything. He told me earlier this week that he had got a babysitter for Saturday night and that we are going out for dinner! I was almost speechless! Before we would have talked about it together and also I would have asked our dear neighbors for help for a few hours. The kids knew them so well, so there was never any problems.
Now, just moved here, we don't know anyone that we could just leave the kids with, especially not someone that the kids don't know and it would be very difficult to just go out for a night.
Chris knows me and that I'm VERY picky about babysitters and wouldn't just take the offer from the teenager down the street, and very particular with how I trust my three babies with, he made sure to find someone very trustworthy. He got in contact with this woman through work, she is a Marine as well, a Military Police and many of the other colleagues in PMO has had her watch their kids and only had good things to say about her.
She was wonderful and really sweet. She came around 7.30pm so that the kids could atleast see her before I put them to bed. Yes, before I put them to bed. I wouldn't want to let some stranger do that. But I also didn't want her to come after I put them down, and they would then a stranger would come and check on them and pick them up if they woke up later? Can you imagine, they would never want to go to sleep after that thinking that when I go to sleep Mommy disappear? No, would never risk that!! They were very hesitant and wouldn't let her hold them or wouldn't let her sit too close, but still at least they had seen her and they had seen that we were OK with having her in our home.
The kids went to sleep pretty fast, Isabella took a little while before she got quiet and fell asleep, and Benjamin who I normally sit with until he's asleep, took a while longer than normal and I was keeping my fingers crossed that he would fall deep to sleep and not wake up when I put him down in his bed.
All good, we left the house around 8.30pm and Cassie and our babysitter C. watched a movie and had pizza.
We went to Red Lobster. I had actually never been at that restaurant before, and as I love seafood, I wanted to try it out. We found several things on the menu that looked just amazing and we were hungry too.
Shared a Nacho/shrimp plate as a starter.
This is the plate I ordered! Looks delicious right??
Especially take not of the size of the lobster tail and the lightly lobster-buttered shrimps.
This is the plate that I got presented, before I even touched anything....
Where are the shrimps?
Oh, under all that sauce..which I had specifically asked for getting on the side..
AND WHERE is the lobster???
Oh, they must have boiled it in too hot water - it shrunk...
And as a side note, the chef really made a wonderful job presenting that broccoli..
It's always the same, we do get a little bit disappointed when we do go out to eat, but we were hungry and did a good job pretty much cleaning our plates anyway. I didn't want to complain, send the plate back taking longer time and we just wanted to eat and not keep sending stuff back and forth. I had ordered a side dish of asparagus, but those we had to send back as they were so overcooked that they fell apart when I tried to pick one up with the fork..not really the way to grill asparagus! With the dish there was a salad and I must say a really delicious "bread", actually it's Cheddar biscuit. Yummy!!
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But seriously, it didn't really matter what we ate, it was wonderful just to get out and spend some time together. We had a great time, and the company was clearly the best possible! We left the restaurant and were home after 10pm. Not such a long date, but we really didn't want to overdue it this first time with her. The babies were still sleeping, they hadn't made a noise since we left, so that was of course great news. Cassie had a great time too and really liked her so we certainly hope that we can have her come back again! And if they behave just as good then, we might even have the chance to squeeze a movie in there too!
Thanks alskling for a great night!! Lets hope it won't be another 6 Months until our next date...